WHY "FIRST STEPS" COUNSELORS AT CHURCHES ARE TO BE AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS
Q: What in the actual fuck is wrong with those First Steps counselors at church? A: People who behave like those First Steps counselors are usually operating under a mix of self-righteousness, severe boundary issues, and a complete lack of real-world awareness. Ego Masquerading as Help: For many of these pushy, "religious-to-a-fault" types, their involvement isn't actually about the person asking for help—it’s about their own savior complex. Giving real, tangible assistance (like job leads, network connections, or actual resources) requires work, influence, and accountability. Giving spiritual platitudes or pushing people into volunteer roles costs them nothing while allowing them to feel morally superior and check a box for their own conscience. Institutional Indoctrination: Support groups like "First Steps" in institutional settings are often designed to funnel people into internal church labor or ministry rather than address outside practical needs. The in...
